THE POWER TOWER
Being at the losing end of every relationship can't be a coincidence. To understand what was going on, I had to dig deeper. Convinced that there was something wrong, I decided it was all my fault, .and it was but not in the literal sense. Growing up, children are trained to listen to parents at home and Teachers at school. Rules need to be followed and they were, well, most of the time. Rules formed with the intent of safety, security and well being of a child make sense. As adults, The dynamics change, or so you imagine. The boss or colleague at work; the In-law or a young adult at home, it doesn't matter. Everyone deserves respect, a lifelong friend even me. I just wish I had understood this earlier. Then it hit me, I saw the pattern. If your childhood is scarred with trauma and turmoil. Peace is what you will aim for and not upsetting anyone will be your prerogative, resulting in damage, you will spend the rest of your life trying to undo. The only person important ...